Empower Newsletter – June 2021
Welcome to the June 2021 edition of the Empower Newsletter. This month the focus is on using ‘language’ as a tool to get you what you want in life simply by changing the words you use.
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Do you know? |
How language impacts your life!
Do you know that the words we use, both to others and to ourselves, become ingrained in our unconscious minds!
You see our unconscious mind’s objective is to help us, to make sure we are safe and to ultimately give us what we want. It is like a child that takes everything at face value and thinks what we are saying, more accurately the words we are using, are what we want.
The thing is the language we use is what our unconscious hears, and in turn, thinks that is what we want.
This is not a conscious thought or feeling, it is unconsciously happening in the background. You see your unconscious remembers everything. Every feeling, event and outcome that has ever happened to you!
For example, after a relationship breakup, you may be saying things (either to yourself or others) like “I don’t want to get hurt again,” so that’s what your unconscious hears and because it wants to protect you from getting hurt again it does everything in its power to protect you, even to the point of sabotaging any potential new relationships.
Funny thing is (not so funny really), because your unconscious is a part of you, it is really you who is protecting you! Which means, it is really you who is sabotaging you!
The good news is, because you are ultimately in control, you can change what is happening.
So if you are not getting the outcomes you want in your life, the best and easiest way to start changing them is to start purposefully using language that will get you what you want. By creating new positive language, you are letting your unconscious know exactly what you want.
You can do this by changing your everyday language around things that you want that are not happening in your life. It doesn’t just relate to relationships, it could be language you use around your career, finances or spirituality as well.
In the above example, you might start saying things like “I want to fall in love again” or start focusing on the positives of a past relationship and what you want to feel or have again. Say things like “a relationship with give me a, b, and c.”
By changing the language you use, it will change any unconscious beliefs that have been holding you back.
Definition |
Unconscious
Those physiological and cognitive processes that occur outside of conscious awareness.
Something to Ponder |
Our unconscious mind stores memories, Wilder Penfield learnt that everything is stored in the unconscious mind, all our memories. It is the domain of emotions, so we consciously give orders to the unconscious mind to change the way we feel in order to change our emotions. It organises all of our memories, and can recall them in a sequence, like a movie or timeline in our minds. So as we continue living our lives the unconscious mind will relate it to things in the past, so we make judgements on current experiences based on those we have stored, either positive or negative. That means that we can attach a negative emotion to a current state based on that experience recall, even though the current experience may not be negative. And by changing the way we feel, how our unconscious mind recalls that we can change our current state, how we feel.
~ Excellenceassured.com ~
Quote of the Month |
“You affect your subconscious mind by verbal repetition.”
~ W. Clement Stone ~
Affirmation Corner |
‘My unconscious knows exactly what I want by the language (words) I use.’
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May 30, 2021 1:29 pm
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